Especially your mind, as an expat. You come here with expectations & understandings - even though in pre-field training, you are most certainly told not to do that. But you do. Everyone does. These expectations & understandings are simply about life born out of your own world view. For example, I used to feel sorry for the clerks at the Supermarket who have to work 14 hour days/7 days a week and get off one day a month. My expectation and understanding was: this is cruel. This is slavery. There should be laws against this. But no one you talk to complains. In fact, when I went to the Supermarket last week, Geoffrey (one of the clerks) was standing outside helping them move things. He was dressed in street clothes. I asked him why he was dressed in street clothes. He got a HUGE smile and said, “This is my day off.”
“Your ONE day off a month?” I asked.
“Yes,” he replied, still smiling.
“Then why are you here?” I asked. “Go party!”
“I like it here,” he answered. “What else would I do at home? Just sit. Be idle? This is my home.”
Idleness is like THE curse here. People hate to be idle. Tait’s schoolteacher came over on Saturday for a visit and she explained to me how she works from 7 a.m. until 9 p.m (tutoring boarding students) Monday through Friday. She makes around $75/month. I told her that was an awful lot of work for not much of a return and I asked her why she does it. “I love teaching,” she answered, without any hesitation. “I love the kids. I love being with them. Plus,” she continued, “when we have term break and I have to sit at home - I don’t like that. I am just idle. It is not good to be idle.
I would teach for $15/month if I needed to.”